WHAT’S IN A NAME ? EVERYTHING
The original spelling in the UK is Ó Conghalaigh is a Gaelic-Irish surname. It derives from the forename Conghal, meaning "fierce as a hound". It is often anglicised as Connolly, Connally, Connelly and occasionally as Conley. The major sources depicting the lives of European settlers using theses names are patchy and frequently unreliable. Many American families, even the Vanderbilts, Carnegies, Crowninshields, Rockefellers, and Astors, evolved the spelling of their names in a similar ways before settling on the famous spellings we now know. In other cases, like that of Booker T. Washington, a family founder literally selected a name randomly, a created an identity from thin air.
Beginning in 1845, James passed the authority for managing it all to Green Conley, his capable son-in-law. James demanded his sons spell their names consistently in the manner that Green Conley did. Although patriarchal, that is what made the family different - their level of coordination and formal organization was almost unheard of in the era. Those seven sons of James, led by son-in-law Green and James’ daughter Harriet, established small businesses in the Tennessee Valley. They used their access, money, and tenuous privilege to advance their children and grandchildren, and that is what made the difference over 200 years. People across the Tennessee Valley Region whispered about ‘them Conley Boys’ with regards to their shrewd, but fair, business dealings.
Conleys recycled their names aggressively. John, James, Green, Felix, Paschal, and Alexander were often used in the early 1800s. Benjamin Conley was common in the late 1800s. The female names Harriet, Paralee, and Jessie were also passed down aggressively. Nearly a dozen women were named ‘Harriet’ following the birth of the original Harriet in 1818, who became the queen bee of the family until her death in 1893. Charles was recycled after 1900, driven by the prestige of Charles Hamilton Conley’s valor in World War 1. No less than six ‘Charles Conley’ men populated the family in the first half of the century. These names were like ‘assets’ conveying trust, competence, and respect. One ‘Paschal Conley’ followed another for a century.
Many of these names are still found throughout the extended family in modern day 2022. and that tradition continues to this day as another ‘Felix’ was born in 2018, and several ‘Alexanders’ have been born since 2010.
An example of their use of names to extend privileges across the generations is shown below:
FELIX - A name in its 9th generation
PASCHAL & SCRUGGS - ENTERNAL NAMES
In the Conley Family, the familiar name ‘Paschal’ and the cognomen ‘Scruggs’ ring through the decades.